Oh well, at least now I know. WhatsApp pics and conversations just don't work. By the way, I have had to get another job to help make ends meet. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. Nothing fixed that issue in me as fast as being almost inseparably bound to a woman that pushed back and kicked screaming against the pricks every time I wanted to make some sort of spiritual effort. It's so sad to think that people so young will be stuck wearing 19th century undies when they should enjoy their years of being young and stylish. Can I add to this extremely old thread.
That is a goal worth fighting for. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. His hectic job aside, he is an amazing man, very loving and family oriented, which is what I have always wanted. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in. Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate. These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now.
Be open and talk about your ideals. Am still very hopeful and in love. Masculine attributes attract healthy, beautiful women, no matter where they come from.
He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. But daytime game is the key. Do you think that is too draining too.