I was in your same position years ago. Thanks for letting us know. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. I too married for love but there's no emotional energy, support or empathy left for the darling wife. He then proceeded to beat the shit out of her for a decade. Are they a functioning member in society.
No beliefs are protected from challenge, the rules of evidence, or derision. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. And if you can make it to the Tree of Life and still be with your partner, guess what. So if you feel like you both are getting serious, then talk to your girlfriend in time and sort this issue out. Females are not expected to serve and MOST of the girls that do, only do so because they do not have a suitable read: If your GF is an attractive girl and still ended up on a mission then she is about as fanatical as they come and if she isn't already she will be slowly trying to convert you. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. Eventually it turned into a sour argument. He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior.
Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. Or am I just being a pushover and need to demand a little more if he wants to keep seeing me. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer.
Make them feel special. I am hopeful and do feel some healing. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether.