I would say though that racial differences are NOT like religious differences, certainly not those between Mo and Nomo. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. I am so glad I found this blog. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true.
The "loneliness" is not an issue for me. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. I let things slide often not thinking it is worth a battle.
But marriages don't last if you have to hold back ugly, sarcastic comments when your partner attends religious services or defends religious beliefs. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. Although, I also would question the fact that you're doing all the contacting I just do not text anyone that often or call people. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. This is the rule rather than the exception. Congratulations on understanding that and avoiding problems.
Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. It is almost impossible for me to hold my tears back. I don't think I could let that happen. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. Pay for the first few dates. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him.