She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. My 16 year old daughter told her Bishop who made that comment, that she thought her dad was great just the way he was. You need to repent and change. Ask Mormon Girl is the blog of author Joanna Brooks. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate.
If you do not have a lot of time together, make every second count. Your husbands love you, and love that you are able to do what they cannot. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. How the Book of Mormon was translated using a sacred rock. See to it that she is aware of your plan, so you both can properly dress.
My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. Honestly I'd let things keep going. And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours. Break up with her. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple.
The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. But there are a lot of women who post here who have flipped from TBM to apostate. I always felt guilty for feeling bored, depressed or anxious about spending so much time apart from him, but thanks all, for making me realize that I am not alone. Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on. Thank you so much, L. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it. As others mentioned, when they are home they are often exhausted, catching up on sleep, preparing a presentation or catching up on notes. Actually, Mormon families are shrinking, just like those outside the Church, but they will always be larger than families outside Mormondom. Most couples who are married where one is a Mormon and the other isn't, usually stems from a situation where they both were married in the temple, then one of them lost their faith sometime after that.