The kids are so involved and I am busy with them but I long for my husband to work less. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. Maybe you do, too. But is it the path that will make you the happiest.
I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this. And some will do that. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons.
Cool Nicknames for Guys. If she is as real deal as you say she is, she believes this also. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce.
Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. However, from what I have seen he has all of the qualities I want from someone long-term.