You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. We have been married a mere 3. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings.
I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. Aww God bless all u patient strong wives. They will teach the girls that sex is bad and wrong, which is something they will have trouble putting behind them when they eventually do get married. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing.
Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. Somehow I never believed any of that; I wanted a career and a small family and never believed religion was a way to identify good character. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving.
Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. The importance of tithing your money. How the Book of Abraham was translated from Egyptian scrolls.