You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. They will teach the girls that sex is bad and wrong, which is something they will have trouble putting behind them when they eventually do get married. What a miserable state. I have been a doctor's wife for 1 year now and we've been together for 7 years. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. Trust me, I too tried to make it work with my very Mormon also returned missionary ex-girlfriend.
It has made me more creative in utilising time alone that it is sometimes preferred. The average debt of a med school graduate is aboutUSDwhich normally takes up to 30 years to pay off and consequentially amounts to aroundUSD of total debt with accrued interest added in. Have lots of sex. There's a picture of the magic rock he found while digging a neighbor's well. I've had friends with spouses that got Fulbrights or grants to study in other countries. These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term. I'm glad he's upfront about the difficulty in dating for him. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution.
I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. There is no moral issue here. If it is even possible, would it strengthen or weaken their ability to develop a personal relationship with their Heavenly Father. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like. Hi, I'm so glad to be able to enter this forum. In my experience, life-long member, many Mormons have difficulty thinking outside the box, and putting forth effort to inclue and love. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs.