I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. I got married last year, left a great job, family, friends and city to be with my husband in a very small under developed town. You will join the church. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church. Word to the wise, wait a day or two.
My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. Eternity is a long time. While I knew that she'd be busy with her studies, she did make good efforts to spend time with me at least once a week and things all seemed fine. Now he is studying for this big exam and I have seen a very different side to him.
When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. See where it goes. On top of this we are going to have our first child on April 12th and I feel very alone. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. In fact, you likely will meet a few. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. We have been married a mere 3. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it.
This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. It is nice to hear that I am not alone, and that we can do it. He was devastatedcalled me every night crying telling me to please go back. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it.