If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. And I learned how freeing that is. We have a strong relationship, so I am lucky - but lately the demands of family are becoming a bit too much to handle - and I really don't know how to 'deal' with my inlaws and 'sharing' my husband with them. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. Yet people look at me like I'm crazy.
Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. I am married to an interventional cardiologist. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa.
Something that will help you stand out is a strong masculine frame. I sacrificed a career and instead raise the children at home which often feels like single parenthood. Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate. Because of the nature of this job, it was not uncommon for him to be at the hospital overnight or to be called back in for an emergency surgery. I understand the sacrifice that it takes to become a doctor, but I am not sure if he does. If not watch it. We do have a small baby but he is usually alseep by 7: Should I be worried. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion.
If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. I still love my Heavenly Father and my Savior. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since.