Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together. It takes him about 20 minutes to get ready. He started to reflect on how he had become accustomed to missing the day to day moments but these were the big ones that were now being pushed behind his work in priorities. Expect that you will do the majority of parenting and attend school functions alone. It's been tough to always move and find a new job, friends etc I agree a support system is needed. And the fact that he didn't respond for two days was confirmation for myself that I did the right thing. The system has broken him down and rebuilt him as someone, I fear, I won't be able to respect or feel connected to. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether.
I am realizing now, after leaving my job, selling my house, moving ect…. Before I would just take things as they came, internalize them, be miserable about it but not voice my concern in fear of being told that I can't handle his lifestyle. However, "medical families" can work. We talked about getting married early in our relationship since we had known each other forever.
This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. I love my husband so much, but 40 years of loneliness has been more than difficult. Pin It on Pinterest. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome.
Sorry ladies, but that's just doesn't cut it for me. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. Interesting to read the concerns of so many doctor's wives.