Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. They are taught to refrain from smoking, drinking, or experimenting with drugs.
I think a lot of what you say here really rings true, especially the part about the Date Night. I remember attending numerous priesthood meetings by myself and wishing dad were next to me. And it can be done any time during the day, so scheduling is easy. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. If he's too tired from work to go to a party that we both wanted to go to, then I'm cool with staying in since I just enjoy his company and am happy to finally be seeing him. While reading the article I could actually picturize my near future. He had a nervous breakdown- panic attack by 10am.
All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. So i try and be supportive with cute texts and never asking him to call me or do anything, but it is hard not to feel resentful. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church.
She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. So if you marry a doctor do not have low expectations, but learn early to take third parties out of your marriage even if you have to call them directly and tell theey do not matter to me. Pray about it and follow your heart. I love my husband with my whole soul. We've been together for a little over a year, after having a pretty severe break at right after the 1 year mark. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв.