Please see above link for full rules. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. I know kids and a house will make our time together challenging, but for as long as I have known him his family is the most important thing and he makes sure to keep a strong relationships between them. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses.
Mastering the alone time has started to become an art for me I can only imagine how you must feel after doing it for so many more years: I am so glad I found your blog today. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. Although, I also would question the fact that you're doing all the contacting I just do not text anyone that often or call people. Which even the kind ones are. While doctors start off with 6 figures right off the bat, they also have 6 figures of debt under their belt. Your girlfriend might, or maybe IS, going through this. It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely.
There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. He just started studying for the boards. Not leaving 5 minutes early to drop you off - 15 minutes could get problematic, but five?. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed.
Two very simple things that require so much effort and understanding. I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job. There are other rewards, like him being available during the week or on odd days when other dads aren't, and knowing that we don't have to struggle financially as many of our friends do in this tough economy.