I'm a single, financially independent woman. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. I understand that, and accept that. That's okay, but it means your not a match. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church.
Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. I am a fierce supporter of him and of his profession but at high cost to my own individuality. Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project. Married men should not reach out to vulnerable women who buy their story of being lonely bc they are married to a woman who should have been a librarian.
I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals. Before that, you are encouraged to date, but not exclusively. Keep things going and see what happens. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much.
I decided to do the mormon thing and just not think about it too much right now. He has changed so much over the years and is very impatient with the kids. Sooo, I guess my question is Did I dodge a bullet or do new residents go crazy, but eventually come back to their senses. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. Now he is into his second year, the schedule has improved some and so has his libido: I am married to an intern this is his first year residency, unfortunatley he didn't match so this is only a pre-lim year and now I know in my thoughts we may have to move again, so I get upset when I think why even try and get attached to the community, neighbors, new friends As humans we really need people in our lives especially in a time like this, although we might have to move again and go through the whole match process again there is still hope and there is still a very much needed assist with friends, and family in our lives. That deal with polygamy explained. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. Toxic is the right word. This also means giving her something specific to do.