Break up with her. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. It just gets so lonely you invariably commission yourself a single parent. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays. It won't be easy.
If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. I had a single mom friend who only had her kids every other week and she was treated with kid gloves. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. I still feel enriched by the contrasts, but in the important things, we have largely come together. If it is even possible, would it strengthen or weaken their ability to develop a personal relationship with their Heavenly Father. While I knew that she'd be busy with her studies, she did make good efforts to spend time with me at least once a week and things all seemed fine. Joanna has written a good answer here. Your crush will watch you closely to see how you interact with these little ones.
I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. This sub is a great place to do that. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men. Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. How is that gonna work.
You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. Hi I have read all your comments and although I am not married to a Doctor my dad was a Doctor and I think marrying a Doctor is no different to marrying any man who works with his own ambitions. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. I don't think I'm eligible to advice, but I would say be prepared to be independent and make lots of friends. We also do not allow harassment of those who post about being victims of rape, or who state that they are contemplating suicide. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs.