This is not to say that I need to be the center of attention all the time, but just that I think all the time spent alone makes it more difficult to connect with each other. I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China. Amasa enjoys art, music, and traveling. At least I know that there are people who truly understand the medical life. I'm the wife of an intern and we try to make a night each week to go do something, just the two of us. I run a local nonprofit and had a demanding job, but it can never be as difficult or challenging as his job.
I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. I know you love her but is it worth it.
Work on myself, not him. I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense". To his defense, when we were great, we were great. Good Questions to Ask Someone. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. If I were to signal him everytime I thought about him, I'd be on the phone with him almost all of my waking hours. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. Reading all your comments makes me feel sometimes uplifted, other times scared as hell. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it.
I would rather being with a man who makes less and is faithful but that is just me!. And no one has the right to judge you for your decision. And to be fair, he always does contact me to see each other eventually So while some of his behavior makes me question stuff, other times I feel like this is just a phase due to his residency and maybe this is worth hanging on for down the road. Do you think I need to have some sort of commitment from him before I can make that decision.