I think she felt that it was important for me to understand the types of challenges in an interfaith marriage. If he has to work late call a girlfriend or paint a picture. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. I found that it worked just as well. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв. Ladies take a stance. I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies.
Like any woman I am a Medical Assistant I sometimes question myself and ask myself what I would do if "unfaithfulness" came across. You need to disabuse them of this notion. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. We also struggle with infertility. If you don't want your "golden ticket" of the good life, then give me your golden ticket. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. All I can say is, "WOW".
Should I stay or let him do his thing. She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. Because what are Mormons about. How long did you date him and put up with that. It is helpful to know that there are others who are experiencing the same emotions and to hear about your coping methods and advice.
So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. It has worked and my children are very protective of their father. The first week home he is already covering someone elses cases I struggle with where to draw the line Again we have never had coverage when we needed it. We have to show them we care. Of course they do. Now I feel like a stepford wife. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. But I don't know that he does the same for me.