They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. Get used to it. I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. You'll be richly rewarded.
I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. And here's a fabulous musical explanation of how the church came to franchise it's ecclesiastical services and doctrinal instruction in a process known as correlation. I was shocked how much the stress, lack of sleep, etc. Why do we not talk about Heavenly Mother. Now I look at his job and his schedule and his tiredness as a part of both of our lives, rather than something that is just his life that I have to deal with. Work on myself, not him. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is.
I would like to compliment the brave ladies for being the strong spouse and keeping the marriage moving forward. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. Do you have any specific suggestions for discussion about content on LDS. Think of it as giving him a prompt, and now he gets to give his thoughts. Work on myself, not him.