She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. I was just told that today when I told a friend how lonely it gets being married to a doctor and how I miss having my bestfriend around. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start.
She may be beautiful, friendly, and sincere. We strive to improve each other. I was not moving with him until there was a promise and it would still take me a few months to find a job and relocate.
Pickings are slim at church. No one knows your situation the way you do. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change. Sunday is considered sacred by Mormons, and they do not undertake any entertaining or outdoor activities that result in spending, on that day. I honoured this request and did not contact her until after her exams finished.
What a joke for an archaeologist. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. If he weren't a doctor saving lives and had more free time, he could most definitely do YOUR job.