I hope that makes sense. These are also only the American statistics. These insane hours are wearing on me and I fear what has happened to so many I know will start to happen to us. I hope you can make this work out. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. So if you marry a doctor do not have low expectations, but learn early to take third parties out of your marriage even if you have to call them directly and tell theey do not matter to me.
He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. If someone is going to cheat on you, it has nothing to do with their profession. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. I really do have strong feelings for him and want to make this work… but I'm beginning to feel like I have no identity of my own anymore and I will forever just be, "the doctor's wife. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. And what happens when we have kids?. I find there are less disappointments when I know I am completely on my own. It also seems like he's into it based on how he acts around me and the things he says.
In many ways, you yield some authority to the church. It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams. I've been thinking more about your situation and another thing came to mind. We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. Don't think your life is going to be all rainbows and great lifestyles. How to Win Over a Guy. Is this a sign of my own weakness.
Would I like to have him by my side. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me.