He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. As others mentioned, when they are home they are often exhausted, catching up on sleep, preparing a presentation or catching up on notes. I thought I was very understanding and, while I did invite her out at other times, I was very clear that her studies were paramount and I wanted to support her as best as I could during this time. We met on the day he was accepted into medical school, lived together for his rotations during 3rd and 4th years and were all set to move together for residency.
I know the majority of them are great, but there are so many who are like vultures and will latch on to any male doctor like he is theirs. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. I'm not going to break up with her because of her religion, but if we can't come to some kind of understanding about what we'd do with kids After reading every page of that CES letter I am fully aware this religion is a complete fabrication. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple. It does kick your butt!. I knew a guy who joined the Mormon church because he thought it would help him date a certain Mormon girl, a girl who refused to date non-Mormons. If you have children how will they be raised.
This isn't what life is about. You'll question your parenting decisions but he won't be involved in supporting you because he'll have no idea what's going on and little interest. It's a tricky business, but oh so worth it for the one you love. Anonymous, You are definitely one of the the club. Yet, this life is hard on the whole family.
It also means that you have to give her something particular to do. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term. She will likely want you to convert to fix the family. December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. We have been married 16 years and we got married during the week off in between his first and second year of medical school. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think.