Know her limits on substances. The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. I get to spend my life with someone who was not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender roles. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. I am glad that I came across your blog.
And some will do that. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship. In truth if I had a chance to "do it all again" type of thing.
My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. I envy all you lonely doctor wives. Or should I just run and avoid a lifetime of heartbreak.
Anonymous, you are right. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. So I've been dating my boyfriend for more than a year. He sees all families being able to stay together.