Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons. Or get them met elsewhere. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. I thought she would grow out of it. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. IE в the comment about not having a husband to give priesthood blessings, etc.
Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again.
If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. That list is comprised of his parents including his dad's affair which led to a son, his aunts and cousins in Europe his sister and her husband who are handicapped and whoever comes his way asking for a handout. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. Sure it's lonely and hard work being a "single parent". What do you do while they are away. Maybe you will win.
The church will be in your bedroom, finances, and all your decisions. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. The struggle is real. To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered. The point is that he should ASK her if this is true for her. It all depends on the girl. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. I have a better and fuller relationship with God because my own practice has been supplemented by additional observance. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. You have to come second right now.