He can't make a mental switch easily to adjust to our pace of life. The history of racism and violence is upsetting. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. Interesting to read the concerns of so many doctor's wives. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. Chances are you can't though. Joanna has written a good answer here. She was so sad over what she sacrificed it just haunted everyone on Reddit.
Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. Not one little bit. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. Cookies make wikiHow better. I get to spend my life with someone who was not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender roles. I often contemplate divorcing my husband so that I could seek happiness elsewhere, or at least companionship. Your mids is still young. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism.
There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. No doubt that all rightetous persons will accept Christ but not everyone that dies will be righteous. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. In the end people have to make their own decisions. He did not like the idea of early morning seminary and he told me I was old enough to make my own choice to serve a mission, but he strongly advised against it.
There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. We have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old baby. He will come to you. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons. I would never ever choose a different path. I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects. Can I leave him now. This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS.