It kills me that we are now diminished to a mere statistic. I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians.
Anyway, I'm sad and disappointed and I know that it will be my job to keep the marriage together. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. But the loneliness and the hours ER shifts are taken everything I had left in me. But that was also a possibility if he had married a non-mormon.
I am so grateful to have had the ability to instill in them that family comes first. At that point, I would have gotten half of everything we own. First, let's start with a short musical introduction on what it's like to be a True Believing Mormon dude. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. Like you, I didn't want to stress him out by giving him some sort of ultimatum or demands. I suggest to run as it will not get better.
There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. I'd gladly give it all up to have him and feel wanted. Let him respond before you say anything else. Lots of really thorough replies.