I'm so glad to have found this blog. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. As a non-Mormon male widower Catholic contemplating marrying a devout temple recommended widow, I thank you all for the wonderful blog. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith.
I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. And on my part, I felt I needed to go out and live harder, party more, be more social, etc. I prayed about whether to marry this man, and I felt and still feel strongly that it was right for me. All around me, I am being asked if I am ready to be a doctor's wife, and do I know what is expected of me. Be open and talk about your ideals.
In each case, you should also consider how this will affect your families. So if you are caffeine junky, be sure that you can adjust to and accept your date's beliefs before going on a date. I think the secret to a successful marriage and a successful family is to respect each other's space and to enjoy all the good times no matter how trivial they are and to foucs on the positive aspects of the marriage an family life.
What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. Getting things done, solve every problems, started my day with long a to-do list daily. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her. I would never convert. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. Pay for the first few dates.