We are both extremely busy, and maybe that's why we work, but we try to make the time for our relationship. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. Submit a new text post. Maybe you will win.
As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. I got married to a Mormon woman. I don't know how to manage the resentment. Spending a lifetime single is not something most people would choose to do, but fear of being forever single should never be a deciding factor in entering a marriage, lest serious problems go unaddressed before serious commitments are made.
My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. But when my oldest daughter hit 12, the lessons started to have one major theme: This is what girls are told should be their primary goal. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. One big question is, does he make you a priority when he has the time to be able to make something other than work a priority. Then an explanation of the nature of your soul and where it came from and where it's going. I am a non Mormon. I wish you the best. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling.
I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding. But it would not change my love for that person. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. They must refrain not only from sex, but also passionate kissing or similar physical contact, or any act that arouses such feelings. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. But I loved this girl more than anything in life. She got engaged 3 months later.