Maybe it won't be a big deal. If she says that the mission was the greatest experience and best two years of her life, any chance you have at a normal long-term healthy relationship is dim unless you convert. You will have to bring her down to reality. This was the biggest one for me. Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. Am I wrong to hope for this. I wish you the best of luck. Also, if you have girls, you must realize that they are second class citizens in the church and the church will reinforce this idea.
It's like saying I know how to treat you respectfully buuutt I don't feel like it. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. If they believe their religion, they will ultimately cause you pain and disappointment.
Days later he simply said, "What do you want to do for your birthday. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians.
We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. The thing about General Authorities and General Conference, is that they give general counsel that is meant for the general population. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Then I discovered that Mormons were a welcome exception to the degeneracy that pervades American women. I alway understood and supported him so it was my way of being useful in the world, too. Where do you find Mormon girls. I knew I was going to be alone much of the time and for the most part I can handle it. But he does want to get married to and to have kids.