I have been understanding of the demands of his career for many years, but I have come to realized that I'm not happy living this way. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails. Please submit content that is relevant to our experiences as women, for women, or about women. Yeah, I think we need to have that talk I've been putting off. Do you think I need to have some sort of commitment from him before I can make that decision. This has been a good distraction when she's doing awkward shifts but coordinating time together can be difficult. Whenever you bring something up, they'll say if it's not on lds.
Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. I never really thought about the sacrifices the wife of a doctor must make. He would be leaving his career, something he has worked so hard for and his passion for his family. So I am getting myself ready. How to Win Over a Guy. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. He doted on me, and we had long skype conversations for the first few weeks.
She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. Now he is home for dinner every night, takes a fraction of the calls, and doesn't work holidays. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. Communicate and get those answers, OP.
If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air. And can you talk about hard things together. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed. Best of both worlds if you ask me. I would find it therapeutic to type out all of my feelings and at the same time he would get an update. Marriage to the wrong person is extremely difficult. I love him more than anyone else I've been with - but it takes a strong, patient woman willing to sacrifice a lot, to date a doctor. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy.