If it's true, it'll come out of the criticism looking better. Funny thing is he told me when we met that he was ready to stop focusing so much on work and start focusing more on his life. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. But I believe, doctor or not, a relationship is all about supporting one another and making sacrifices.
I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. We also live in a foreign country which is another element of difficulty.
Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. I am his wife and we have 4 children. I've been doing it wrong. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. Now, they are limited to only 80 hours per week. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material.
His pager will become your most despised enemy. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. My husband and I have been married for about 4 years and together since we were undergrads, before he chose medicine as his profession. Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening.