The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. My 2 younger children are entering middle school soon. And no one has the right to judge you for your decision.
My husband was definitely worth the heartache and suffering that I endured but I am grateful that he was able to see that our family was worth a change in lifestyle. Would she want you to attend church with her. I"am a man married to a female doctor with two daughters one is five years of age the other two and a half. I remember one time I did just that with a group of friends and someone saying, "Oh you have it so rough. The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. Signs of an Affair. It hasn't been easy for me to create a regular social life that involves me missing a husband. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day.
I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. Should either of you sisters raise your children and wonder what faith will they choose. We talked about getting married early in our relationship since we had known each other forever. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful.
I don't want to make a mistake by leaving everything I have going on for me for him. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. Somewhere down the road, you will find another girl who will be a much better match for you. Should one belief system or lack of one take priority and why. If you talk to him about it, and he cares about your relationship enough, the two of you will probably be able to find something that works for both of you. But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people. His specality is emergency medicine so I know that is extreamley competitive. Not one little bit. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc.