By Thursday, I'd feel like he disappeared. Full respect and care. It's been really, really hard for my fiancee, and I don't think he would be my fiancee if I was this busy when we had met. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. So you made a wise decision. That deal with polygamy explained. Ask her out on dates. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. I wouldnt encourage my kids to date a mormon.
Mormon children are advised, in their religion, to refrain from dating until they are at least 16 years of age. They don't want to accept that someone can understand the doctrine and choose to reject it. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. You can't force her to change, nor should you if you could. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. You have given me the courage to continue to protect my marriage and children. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. Wow i am in the exact same position. The man I started dating 8 years ago, long before med school was in the picture, is disappearing before my very eyes.
Feel free to see some of them as rhetorical. I completely agree, but I think the critical part is that he needs to talk to her. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse.