I loved being single, and I love dating him now, but demanding rotations are giving me an idea of what his surgical residency will be like except that I know it will be x I have spent hours and hours and hours on blogs like these, trying to understand if it will be worth it-- worth the very real possibility of losing my identity, of boxing myself in career-wise, of never being in control of where I live, of a thousand lonely nights. Please start another thread and continue the conversation. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding.
She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. Until our marriage, I was living a care free life when I would do things as I please. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion.
Be fruitful and multiply. Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. God will help you both work this out. Ask him if he's not seeing you to not commit.
That's the difference - marrying for love vs marrying for a paycheck. He's a good man. It's a heart-wrenching story. You have been blessed with the equipment to make such decisions. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. Keep things going and see what happens.