I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. That contributes to status in her culture. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. He expects gourmet meals and an immaculate house.
So now, after two years, I'm finally starting to realise that just because I've met someone and we love each other dearly, it doesn't mean I get the benefits of having a co-parent around, which is something I desperately want. A grandpa sense of humor and occasional clever line from an old movie go a long way. I don't think so. What can you expect. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that.
If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. His dad and siblings are also doctors, hence his mom is quite use to the idea of being alone and independent. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. Anything she learned about mormonsim, she wanted to learn on her own. Yeah man, don't doubt someone who was a missionary will try to convert you.
I must admit that this life comes with a lot of surprises. Not sure if you are, or not. Here are my thoughts as someone who grew up with a non-mormon father and as someone who married a non-mormon girl. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. It is an act of faith. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out. That's the difference - marrying for love vs marrying for a paycheck. Imagine if all the men in the world weighed over pounds and acted like slobs.