You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. Of course he invited me to come with him, but he is in the wedding, so I'll be sitting there watching him in the wedding on my 30th birthday weekend. While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone.
I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. I have known many women who have married non-members and are happy. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies.
Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. Best wishes in whatever you decide. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. However her husband joined the church a few years after their marriage. I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. Wonderful memories made for both of us. People respect him more and belittle him less He seems just a little bit happier - which makes a difference at home. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God.
You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. I definitely don't want to lead her on. I'm quite willing to take you at your word, but my guess is that academia had nothing to do with your ex being immature. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. We have a happy marriage. A more unfortunate soul needs him right now as much as I need him. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage.