The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. I mentioned in another post that I am okay with us not seeing each other all the time. Accept yourself, and feel God accepting you, and everything else will follow. I am just starting to get a little panicky and upset about this the more I think about it. The importance of modesty. I realize my situation is less about marriage, and more about dating, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.
What if you are sexually incompatible. And your needs essentially have to be silenced a lot of the times. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership. Mine was in California, back in the 70s.
My wife is living proof that they CAN be worth it. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. I forgot to mention that we've only been dating for 6 mo. Do you see yourself being with him for many years. The essay on race and the priesthood claims that Brigham Young prophesied that blacks would receive the priesthood someday, but if you actually follow the link in the footnotes you will see that he was misquoted. And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married.
We've been together since he started medical school. Seclusion has served to preserve their desirable traits, but it also makes it difficult to gain rapport. My husband has the benefit of having his cake and eating it too. She will introduce you to the church.