I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. I'm a Mormon girl in love with an amazing non-Mormon man. We play doctor - then she leaves. It is a new experience yet for me as I have only been married 6 months to a doctor. My mother now uses her time in saving stray dogs and helping the poor while my father is away which is everyday. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc. He will always downplay it. I am hopeful and do feel some healing.
She may never join the join the church. I knew that when I met him. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. More success stories All success stories Hide success stories. It CAN work, to be frank. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Righteous love does conquer all but in some cases it takes a lot longer than we are willing to wait. I think doctors have a different perspective of death and loss, because they deal with it so much.
At 30, you just give up. Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants. Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions.
On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment. Dating in your teenage years will help you learn the kinds of things you value in another person. Will things get better. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. My boyfriend is currently in his third year of medical school. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв. I get to experience the joys of his culture, which I never would have known otherwise. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut.