An interfaith marriage can be done well or disastrously, or even only being made up as you go. My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives. In many ways, you yield some authority to the church.
This helps us out a lot, we dont feel like we are missing parts of each others day and I dont keep him up all night talking. I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. But I am really in love with him, and see him as a wonderful man. Toxic is the right word.
Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. I definitely don't want to lead her on. Despite having three children around, it gets super lonely. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP. The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself.
This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. I think we need to steer far away from medicine…. In my experience, life-long member, many Mormons have difficulty thinking outside the box, and putting forth effort to inclue and love. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access.