I can deal with the hours its when he comes home and is so burnt out it kills me. I thought I could do it, but the isolation, loneliness, and depression are much worse than I expected. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit.
And you must be honest in your conversation with God about it. There are a lot of single people in the world. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. It is an act of faith. In response to your comment about being with that creative director think all relationships have problems. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity. Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies.
What can you expect. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. He feels obligated so often and wants to be a nice guy I don't think he even realizes how he hurts me when he so often chooses work. In any case; I can assure you from your post that he doesn't sound like he's being selfish; the behavior does sound like its residency related and not selfishness related. When we're together, everything is good. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. What am I getting myself into. I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job. As ex-mormons, can anyone here offer some insight about this girl, her religion, and what exactly I may be getting myself into if I continue dating her.
Take the time he actually can give you, and appreciate it. I just feel relieved that there are others of you out there in the same boat as me. As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. I hope you can make this work out. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church. Helpful way to learn the facts in a fast and funny format. He was also born in Russia during the 80s and did not come to the United States until so we sometimes deal with cultural differences as well as religious. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. At least not until they're I reserve the right to refute any teaching that I see as harmful.