I hope that things will improve and I can adjust to all this. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. I have read some of the comment here and would like to share my experience.
And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. That I will be expected to be a full time single parent most of the time. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion.
It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. But God works in mysterious ways. This is normal for residents. Everyone has their own sins and impure thoughts they need to overcome. I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. I am thinking about him pretty much all the time. We are indeed in two different places. Love is what we do, not what we feel. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start.
Don't expect a traditional marriage I am sorry for your story. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. I thought she would grow out of it.