Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. When you said that the doctor spouse sacrifices for their patients and their family sacrifices for the doctor's career, it really described my situation. We are in a predicament, because we are Jewish and it is difficult to get married between April and November during day light savings time because the sun sets much later which elongates our sabbath and makes it difficult to start a wedding at a reasonable time. You see, I am the guy, and she is the established doctor dermatologist. I don't pity you at all. All you care about is the paycheck. I realize I rambled a bit and may not have answered all your questions; feel free to ask anything else you want to know. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. I am not married yet, there is some consolation in that.
I have days when I feel like I don't want to do this anymore, but then I go through old pictures and letters and to remind myself that we had it figured out once, and we can figure it out again. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. He's just wrapping up his first year. Much better to marry in the faith if possible. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. If you go to mormonthink. I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom.
She will likely want you to convert to fix the family. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. But of course this does not mean that mixed religion children cannot grow up to be LDS stalwarts. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together.
I have no support in this and so many of the DW have just accepted this life I just cant ,I want more There are so many days I wish I had a normal life and he had a normal job. Welcome to the future. I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. We've been going on dates and acting somewhat "couple-ish" for a few months but haven't assigned any labels to our relationship. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime.