Modest dressing is the best policy here. Ask her out on dates. The one I met was full of himself, a slob, and really not that great to women. How is that gonna work. He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day. When I do open up to one or two close female family member, they often tell me that their husbands are equally unavailable and I should not complaint. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community. Thanks for letting us know. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine.
Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. We might not always like the way some priesthood holders act, but to disparage the priesthood is not being responsible.
The fact that you bring your query to Joanna Brooks rather than church authorities reveals much. I am the wife of a general surgeon in his mid 50s. Sunday is considered sacred by Mormons, and they do not undertake any entertaining or outdoor activities that result in spending, on that day. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting.
If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. I have been a doctor's wife for almost 2 years - and we have been together for about 7 years, since right before intern year. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. I would never change my decision to marry him. Life is too short.