Sorry that you went through that. It's scary to feel like you might never measure up to someone's expectations you love. That response made her very happy. I agree, girls, it can be a challenge to find time together. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. It's like watching somone lose themselves in an abusive relationship.
Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. For instance, I am okay with the us not seeing each other very often part. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered. Maybe if I met him at another point in time, things would have worked with us. We have been married a mere 3. My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years.
I am a something male. It is not the norm. I've already approached him like a million times to ask why he has been distant with me but now I'm realising it's his work load but he doesn't want to admit it's a lot for him. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. The thing I worry about is the reason that we are together is that I don't want to build my own life. His fellow resident is married and seems like a good guy, I want to believe my bf will change.
The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. If you have children how will they be raised. Wife finds out, affair continues, but now he is the perfect husband, and she is the perfect wife.