I too wish I had researched more in depth the other doc's wives blogs out there - I would have come up with a much more clever blog title. We still hadn't had the "are we official. We started dating 16 years ago, and both resigned from the church earlier this year. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. Now, he has just started a new training in a new country and i am so lonely here. But i am struggling to cope with him and his hectic schedule. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea.
If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. I clearly stated twice that I severed things with the girl. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. She might not realize how important it is to compromise. There are such things as perfect loving families though.
Honestly i love my baby future doctor honestly i would never leave her, but im scared of not knowing how to deal with all situations and emotions by myself, and this have already began, that means evrytime is going to be worse and ill got to be more strong. He's usually trying to catch up on sleep working on a presentation, patient notes, etc I know communication is key, but it's helpful to know that others are going through the same experience. This broke my heart. I see a future with him but I'm not sure whether I can handle it. You are too young to deal with this.
I don't know if I want to be a single mother of four kids. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. Children thrive on clarity and consistency. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church.