And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation. Of course, your parents will care most. I don't know how to manage the resentment. He came to bed at 1: I don't know if I can make this work. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop.
Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better. I am so glad I found this blog. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. December 10, at 7: December 10, at December 11, at 6: December 20, at 6: December 10, at 2: December 14, at March 1, at March 8, at 1: March 7, at December 10, at 8: Having dealt with a similar issue all of last week I have a couple things to say. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв. It is important especially when you have children to make time for your partner regardless of his job. This is the type of doctrine that Joseph rejected and so have the leaders of the church.
However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. I maintain my own life and embrace my SO with open arms when I do see him, which comes to about once a week usually dinner after 8: I get up with him at 4 A. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. The church essays that address that linked at www. Communication is at an all time low and stress is at an all time high. It doesn't help to know that he is terrible at being alone. They get hazed, they get questioned all the time, they don't get sleep, they have people's lives in their hands and have to struggle to be confident in what they know, but not too egotistical to kill someone Give him the benefit of the doubt and some space.
Learn all you can. Gain Essential Business Knowledge. This sub is a great place to do that. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. Dating is a tricky game. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons.