There are many good things. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids. As a docs wife we have to deal with all sorts, and prayer has often been my lifeline. When I come home, I don't necessarily want to be alone, I just need to do things that will calm or recharge me instead of things that will tire me out more.
If you don't want to give up, then don't. I don't know what to do. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. Each time, I start to make friends and have to leave them and move. There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely. A year would have been just fine. Hi Ladies- My man is an emergency room physician in his mid 50's.
The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. My two daughters have each chosen a man who is emotionally and physically available, thank goodness. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. We both love eachother and I support him as he supports me while im in school as well. YOu ladies out there My soon to be fiance is a doctor, he'll be ending his internship in and maybe will do his postgraduate abroad. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well.
I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized. He is a great man and I know he will always put his family first but this is such a hard decision. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it.