I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. The man had essentially been in acadamics his whole life and was emotionally immature. It might be just a few seconds, depending, but evidence that he's thinking of you. You're only seeing what's on the surface of her Have enough people told you to run. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. Easily found in most hospital lobbies.
All I can do is Trust in God. Recently though she has been quite distant, although this may be due to a combination of reasons - such as family sickness and now being on nights. Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. I tried my best, every bit of me…. Those were difficult both in terms of terminology and in understanding what was going on medically. Well the pieces will all fall into place.
I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church. My 2 younger children are entering middle school soon. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first.
I can say this. You need to repent and change. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. This makes me so sad. Your mids is still young. It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book.