I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career. Do you work through parent teacher conferences and the entire soccer season. It's almost like I feel as though I have to watch what I say at all times especially when he has residents calling him for various things, might be on call that night, and has to be at the OR by 5: When I myself was interning in my profession, the girl I interned with had married her boyfriend who is also a specialist earlier that year. What am I getting myself into.
You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone. Me doing everything around the house, running all errands, and working full time doesn't compete with the high stakes work he does and he doesn't understand how hard I am working also because of his job. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes. MinsPackage speaks the truth. Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality.
I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. Adore them and make them feel loved and appreciated. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. So basically we were lies to for years. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. But now, in addition to being a primary spouse, I'm also the primary parent. Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings.
My wife and her family are a good example of this. Thank you for this web site blog-I have enjoyed reading these similiar experiences of ladies married to physicians or soon to be physicians. I loved him for THAT. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands.