Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants. I have suggested a date night just for us but, he doesn't want a scheduled night for dates. Many hour days and sometimes 10 days straight without a day off. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. There are other issues at play here that are my husband's personal history and that he is now trying to come to grips with, and I have hope that we can put our marriage and our family back together-but the job marches on, relentlessly, and there is no time allotted for personal healing.
I'm keeping myself occupied with my kid, work but I wonder if my career will ever take precedence. Heck his sleeps best with me on his chest. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is.
I've told her that but maybe she doesn't believe me. Top Posts Do Mormons believe people can become gods. Thanks for pointing this stuff out. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. After 15 years of marriage, I'm so used to living a separate life with our 3 kids. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. We go for hikes with the dogs and bike rides but I feel so lonely and it breaks my heart every time I have to leave his house because I know that I won't see him for a week or more.
This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. Wonderful memories made for both of us. You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. Anybody dating him is going to need to understand that, and that it has to come first. Feel free to see some of them as rhetorical.