By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. You are looking for evidence that a. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. But of course this does not mean that mixed religion children cannot grow up to be LDS stalwarts.
I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. After all, when he IS around, he never makes them do anything they don't want to do, and he buys them expensive things to make up for being absent from their lives so much. I do not understand what makes these nurses think that they have a place in his life. So i try and be supportive with cute texts and never asking him to call me or do anything, but it is hard not to feel resentful. The envy of all of our friends.
Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. It won't be easy. We met on the day he was accepted into medical school, lived together for his rotations during 3rd and 4th years and were all set to move together for residency. One small thing to add here. He was also a poor communicator and felt he didn't need to voice certain things, like 'I love you'. Hopefully, it will give a little insight into Mormonism's insidiousness. If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. When I do open up to one or two close female family member, they often tell me that their husbands are equally unavailable and I should not complaint. My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US.
My family is pretty awesome in the church. Communication is at an all time low and stress is at an all time high. This is right for me and for us. If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion.