No doubt that all rightetous persons will accept Christ but not everyone that dies will be righteous. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else. Reason being - he wants our relationship to be spontaneous like it was before the pre-med things really "kicked in". Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried.
Just remember that you chose one another. However, and this might sound sad. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. I just feel relieved that there are others of you out there in the same boat as me. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. But, you will probably lose. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS.
Thanks so much for the links. Honestly, he probably is giving you as much of his free time as he can,and can't give you any more. Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine. As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the residents on average and pulls call about twice a week. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion.
Be prepared to experience many disappointments, such as missed events, delayed arrivals and early departures due to patient needs. Should one belief system or lack of one take priority and why. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. You should be fine as long as you stick to the lines you have laid out.